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Don't Be a Loser - Cut Back on the Grease!

This is a love message. Hello, my friend, thank you for arriving here. If you do not know who I am yet, I am a soul healer, divine channeler, prophetic seer… The oracle.. The psychic. Whatever you want to call it… But I have a message for you from your Higher Self. This message may be for you if are an athlete, a visionary, or someone naturally highly driven or competitive.  


Don't be a loser Raileigh Easterling life coaching

You think you are a winner but you are hanging around losers.


Yes, losers. 


I believe that’s what you consider others who do not perform as well as you.


Not people who have sincerely tried in life and failed… I am talking about people who never really tried in the first place. There is no tangible substance to them or their life. They have deliberately decided to just make it by in life… often in the most sleaziest, unhealthiest, and often, very corrupt ways. 


These people are dangerous to your health. 


But why have you chosen them? 


I see that you adore being seen and appreciated. These people, however, put you on a pedestal not because they respect you, but because they have found a way to use you. You are addicted to the attention they give you. 


I am not saying you are a bad person. You unfairly did not receive the attention you deserved at some point in your life. You learned to find love within yourself. All beings have become kin to you because your blood relatives have likely disappointed you. You do not really need anyone, and you are proud of it. But that is why these type of people seek you out. 


You mildly know to some extent that these people are beneath you, that they are not good people and do not love God as you do. But you always hope to inspire them to. They like to see you try, but most of them, however, have already decided a long time ago that they will never change their life. 


You are stubborn and resilient, however. You hate to see people fall behind. You want to take everyone with you. But you are hurting yourself in the process. It is okay to travel lighter. You can give yourself permission to tell people to get out of your way and take up space all by yourself. They know of you, but they do not know the real you. 


These losers find you entertaining. That is all that you are to them – an entertainer. Someone to help them pass the time with. To make them feel good about themselves without having to do much for themselves at all. 


You deserve good people around you. People who refine you, challenge you, teach you, and coach you. You probably know this, but people like you are rare, and even more rare are people who can teach you something. You are highly brilliant, but it is all right if you cut back on trying to prove this a little bit. 


There are organic, good people out there who can truly challenge your intellect and philosophy about life. They will expose you to new ways of thinking and living. They will make you uncomfortable. Sit with those people – or better yet, run with them because that is where you will find them — running fast towards God, just like you.


Don't Be a Loser - Cut Back on the Grease is a message for the soul called to leadership in healing deeply rooted unconscious paradigms in the world. Stay focused. Keep going.


What did you think of this message? Do you find the word “loser” offensive? Do you believe we have the right to label people as winners or losers? I would love to read your comments!


Raileigh Easterling is the Founder of Conscious Lifestyle Coaching LLC. She is a motivational author, poet, & public speaker; a transformational retreat host & mindfulness teacher; and a business & public relations consultant. Conscious Lifestyle Coaching LLC is a sacred space for entrepreneurs, changemakers, and visionaries on the path of self-development, healing, and spirituality to experience transformation and holistic growth.




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