Self-Compassion for When You Feel Lost
- Raileigh Easterling
- Jun 29
- 3 min read
The dreamer is someone who longs so deeply to see change in the world.

This dreamer is going through such intense spiritual awakenings where they are perceiving their life and the realities around them with more clarity, compassion, and divine awareness than ever before. It is in that journey that we break open. Someone who is dreaming often feels lost or confused about who they are and what they are to do next. But this is a sacred and beautiful time of someone's life! The dreamer should be respected and honored just as significantly as the person who is already in production and execution of their life's purpose. We can never fulfill our soul mission, our life purpose, without first dreaming and questioning.
The dreamer lives in the sacred womb of creation. They are rediscovering who they are in the eyes of Source, of Great Love. Despite this person likely moving through and releasing so much pain and trauma, they are also enhancing, refining, and mastering their spiritual gifts. All that is happening in their life is being documented by their spirit. It is through all the crazy and chaotic experiences that one seems to have at this point in their life that end up becoming the keys that unlock the clarity, abundance, and commitments to a higher vision.
We should never look down upon someone who is journeying through their soul and asking questions. We cannot judge people who seem flaky or irresponsible with their lives. We should hold them in prayer with deep patience. It is true, and it may be scary to acknowledge this, but not every dreamer ends up choosing the timeline on Earth in which they fulfill a great purpose. Some people choose to spiral out of this world, this dimension entirely. Some people choose to continue sleeping through their lives, making choices that will destroy their bodies and free their souls. These are people who do not feel whole without the complete vision, and this is a tricky part of the journey for every one of us.
If we are not excelling or succeeding in a specific discipline, career, or relationship, then we feel we are not worthy or important. But if this is you, if you are in the dreaming phase of your life, remember that it is entirely your choice what happens from here. You have been given the greatest power in the world: free will rooted in unconditional love from God. This is the time in your life when, instead of judging yourself, you allow yourself to have fun! You are here to absorb as many experiences as possible and find what lights you up inside.
You are not trying to "free" yourself from anything, or become anyone more special because your soul is whole now. What you are seeking are ways in which your soul can become more embodied, more expressive, and more grounded here on Earth, despite the trials, tribulations, and struggles of what it means to be human. Those of us who have suffered from depression or anxiety feel that our souls are fragmented and that we are lost. It is because we have not fully remembered why our soul is here. But if you are in the remembering, in the dreaming, then you are unlocking and discovering specific codes for a higher dimension.
You are worthy of respect and deep honor for where and who you are. You deserve compassion for when you feel lost. You are doing shadow work, not only for yourself but for all of us. You are choosing to fully see and feel something that causes pain to yourself and others, and you are going to climb your very way out of the darkness. You will share this message with many, many others when you are ready to do so. You are on the greatest adventure of your life. Many mystical experiences are waiting for you. You are a student of the Divine. You are being trained, shaped, molded, and sculpted towards higher divinity. It is beautiful to dream. Without the dream, there is no creation. God, Source, the Universe dreamed you into being. Now it is your time to dream more life into existence.
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Raileigh Easterling is the Founder of Conscious Lifestyle Coaching LLC. She is a motivational author, poet, & public speaker; a transformational retreat host & mindfulness teacher; and a business & public relations consultant.
Conscious Lifestyle Coaching LLC is a sacred space for entrepreneurs, changemakers, and visionaries on the path of self-development, healing, and spirituality to experience transformation and holistic growth.
You can learn more about her and her services, including her 1-on-1 coaching sessions, books, and free resources at consciouslifestylecoaching.com.
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